Saturday, March 9, 2013

December 2007 posts



December 26
OK, this time the title is only boring because I couldn't think of anything more interesting at the moment. Life has not been dull the past week: it has had its ups and downs. Christmas was good and is still going for me. I went to my dad's for supper on Christmas Eve and exchanged presents there, and on Christmas Day at my mom's. But the supper at my dad's wasn't the official Christmas supper; we're having that today on Boxing Day, so the party continues!
Anyways, I guess there's still not much to comment on. I could rant about the usual Christmas commercialism or things like that, but I think we already get enough of that from various places. Although I do have to mention that I was impressed with a guy in Washington state I saw on the news who had nailed a big Santa Claus up on a cross and stuck it in his front yard in protest of the commercialism. That's pretty inventive--and courageous. Apparently no one had stated they were offended; he only had people come and take pictures os far!
I was on You Tube today just to see how many hits the videos I'm in have had. The one of me singing Habanera has had a whopping 3300+ hits! I'm just amazed. That's about 5 times as many hits as each of the other two videos, although Habanera is a popular song, so it's hardly surprising. What's also not surprising is that I was only given a 3 star rating out of 5 by anyone who has rated it. With well-known opera greats like Maria Callas singing this song, you can't really compare. It would be like me trying to sing a Mariah Carey song and hope my version was just as good. Oh well. Also got a comment on the Por Ti Volare video from a random person who thought we did a "nice cover." I like that a random person has commented because all the other comments are from people known to either Gabriel or me. Not that I don't appreciate their comments, but I already know they are fans, so to have someone you don't know appreciate it, that's good feeling. And someone simply added a comment to La Vie en Rose where formerly there were no comments, so that was cool. I have to say that was my least favourite of all the songs I did because I don't really like this song arranged as a classical piece. Edith Piaf did a great job, and I always picture it more as a smoky jazz number. Oh well, it was still fun!
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December 16
I must sound so positive with my title. Well, I can't say it was an exciting week. Full of challenges, for sure, but not exciting ones. What would be an exciting challenge? Someone saying, here, I want to fly you to Sierra Leone to help set up a 5 micro-businesses where women can learn how to sew and be given sewing machines and then be able to sell their services. I'd love to hear that. Or having someone tell me, you need to go to Cuba to collect information about (fill in the blank), and the challenge will be understanding Cuban Spanish. One day maybe. For now, I'm here in Edmonton trying to work my butt off to qualify for a mortgage so that I can actually own a place rather than rent when my mom leaves the country. That's about all I've done for the last while. I will get to go to Victoria for a day at the beginning of January as I'm driving down with a friend that is moving there. Then I'll fly back. I'd love to stay longer but I can't take any time off work.
Well, that's my brief update. Hopefully you didn't fall asleep.
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December 07
Isn't it nice to know this? I hope we also gave more in charity money, too, but somehow, I doubt that!
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November 2007 posts



November 28
My cousin posted a comment on my short blog entry about a girl with similar grammatical pet peeves as mine. She has a photo gallery of infractions. I haven't started one yet but am tempted. In any case, my cousin was shocked that no one asked me what my pet peeve was, although it doesn't surprise me no one asked because usually people don't post comments at all. I have to say there are several pet peeves, but the one in particular is that of possessives that should be plurals. For example, there is a store right now that apparently specialises in sports bras. There is one located on Whyte Ave that is normal, but the branch they have close to South Edmonton Common is called Sports Bra's. There shouldn't be an apostrophe there. It's so annoying when I see that! Please feel free to submit infractions to me so I can post. I need to take photos of these myself, and now that I have a camera phone, it should be easier to do this.


November 11
I hadn't thought about it at the time, because I hadn't been freshly attacked for a while, but another thing that I find I have to do a lot is defend why I am still single. Because my mom and stepdad are moving out of the country next year, people are apparently feeling more concerned for me than they ever used to. What will I do, how will I survive? As though I've always lived at home and don't know how to make my way in the world. I moved to Mexico alone--ok a friend of mine came with me, but she lived on the other side of town!--and lived there quite alone for 2 years, for goodness sakes. But I guess that doesn't count for anything in some people eyes. Or maybe I should just remind them, which I don't always think to do under attack. No, it's just that it happened a couple of nights ago. And then I heard the same lines again: your standards are too high. There are lots of guys out there. Oh yeah? If you think there are so many of them, I invite you to go find one and bring him to me. In fact, bring them all! I love shopping! Try finding a Christian guy that isn't intimidated by a smart wife. There are some, because I know some, but they're already married, unfortunately. Try finding a Christian guy that isn't intimidated or put off by my independence. As older single women, we learn to take care of ourselves but doesn't mean we always want to. It just made me so angry to have to defend myself like that, so much that I've decided not to do it anymore. If someone asks me about why I'm still single and that my standards are too high, I'll tell them to go find me a suitable match, or else I won't even answer their questions because I don't have to stand there and defend myself like that.
I don't know why I'm getting so sensitive about it these days. I noticed at church, for instance, they have groups and ministries for all kinds of different people, young, old, marrieds, young married, single parents, but nothing for singles. I'm too old to qualify for their young adult category, but as an unmarried person, I don't fit anywhere else either! And this morning, one of the pastors was commenting on something about how married people know that saying I love you only at the alter on the wedding day and then stating you might change your mind later doesn't lead to a healthy relationship. Surely. Because single people could never have learned that lesson. If he had just framed it by saying, everyone knows that, and married people would know it best, or something like that, it would have been fine. I guess it's a mix of my own frustration about being single and the constant battle it seems to be against the world to try to survive as a single. I just wish I could have a break!
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