Wednesday, January 23, 2013

June 2007 posts



June 24
My birthday day turned into a birthday week, which seems now to be turning into a birthday month as I have several people who still want to take me out for birthday dinners. I can't say I'm sad about that, and I'm also just so happy to be able to spend time with family and friends, which is the thing I like to do the most. I have some of the pictures of my parties uploaded now, most of which are from party #2 last night, and which was at the house of my friends, Leni and David. They were gracious enough to allow me to host a party in their home (thanks again, guys!). I only have two pictures from party #1 so far, which was a joint party for me and my friend Shivani. Sadly, there wasn't too much salsa dancing at either party, but the Friday before my actual birthday, one of my friends took me to another birthday party of one of his friends, and there was enough salsa there to get in a few dances, so I was satiated. For those of you that couldn't make it to either party, I did miss you there, and I hope to see you really soon :o)
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June 17
I've had two nights of parties already, tonight there is another one with my dad, and next week I have one on Thursday and then Saturday again. OK, they're not exactly all parties, like tonight, for example is just a dinner, but I'm still occoupied enough! Birthday parties, farewell parties, it seems there are plenty of them. Oh, and I had to go to a wedding engagement party--Moroccan style--yesterday afternoon as well. If I hadn't had a party at my place last night, I would have gone to another one as a friend of mine finally finished her dissertation--after how many years?--and had a celebration party last night.
I just realised yesterday that I hadn't update my blog in almost 2 weeks. Not that many of you were likely wondering where I was, considering my regular readers are so few in number that I think I know you all well enough for you to know where I've been. But just in case there are any new readers out there, I'll just let you know that last weekend was my big move home, so I had been spending a lot of time packing prior to that and then unpacking afterward. I also wanted to catch up with work, my research. With all the packing, I didn't really have much time for it and now want to make up a few hours. Besides my grandma coming tomorrow for a 3-week visit, I haven't many plans for my afternoons for the next little while outside of research, writing, writing, and research. And I have a couple of paintings I want to finish, a book that I'm creating for a friend, and start a new painting. Nothing like keeping busy! :o)
I wish I could post some of the photos of the engagement party yesterday as it was a traditional Moroccan event, but I have no way of obtaining permission from the bride and groom to post them in this public space. I do have some other new photos, though, of one of my favourite things--no, not more swans, don't worry--but...wait for it...yep, you guessed it: flowers! I know how much you've been missing them all. I need to transfer them from my camera first, and hopefully I can upload them to my blog soon enough, like today or so.
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June 04
As funds are a little low this year, it seems that I won't be travelling anywhere too far from Edmonton, unfortunately, but as I'm packing my things up to move back home, I just came across an old entry I wrote a while ago while waiting at an airport for a flight that had been delayed. At least I can pretend I'm in an airport as I remember my feelings of that time. I wrote it down on a piece of paper planning to post it on the blog for my recruiting job, but I ended up misplacing the paper, and that was the end of the story. Anyways, here is my reflection on airports:
Airports are such emotional places. Amidst the computers and self-check-in terminals, besides the large hunks of metal we fashion into airplanes, are scores of people filled with anticipation. It's when your flight is delayed, like mine was, that you have ample time to watch people in airports. The anticipation that people have stems usually from 3 different reasons: 1. waiting for a loved one to come home; 2. seeing a loved one off; 3. the less emotional anticipation of lone travellers or business people needing to get a taxi or get to a hotel. You can probably tell by the direction I'm headed in this story that it's the first 2 that affect me the most. In the past, I have been brought to tears by greetings and partings at airports, not including my personal trips, and this time was no exception.
A group of French-speakers was waiting for someone from an African French speaking country or an African from France, by the looks of the name card they had waving. It was a rather large group, and they greeted him with a pointsettia and a bouquet of flowers. He was all smiles as he took the time to shake everyone's hands and be introduced to all those in the group he didn't already know. I don't know what he said, but everyone gave him a round of applause after.
It's events like those that make me wonder: who is this man, and why is he here? Is he a refugee? Did he escape the violence in France right now as is happy to be alive? Is he just visiting some relatives? Was he filled with excitement because maybe it is his first trip to Canada? I try to imagine, and that's what makes me emotional, in part, I suppose. I also remember my own comings and goings to Malaysia and India, the time when I moved to Mexico, and the countless times I've greeted and parted from loved ones at the airport. I guess I know how these people feel, and I find it hard to be detached. Yet this is only one aspect of the dynamic life at an airport.
I have no idea when I wrote this, but I think it would have been around November 2005, which is the only time I flew for my job, and I remember my flight to Prince George was delayed due to fog. So hopefully that helps the context. Write me a comment about airports, what you feel when you're there. I'd love to know.
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May 2007



May 30
Que emocionante! OK, so I just wanted to let you all know that I'm on YouTube now. Gabriel, with whom I sang some duets at the Festival de la Cancion on Monterrey back in 2003, has posted the one solo that I had, called Habanera, from Bizet's Carmen. I'm so excited. The sound quality isn't great, but I hope you enjoy it anyways. For those of you that don't know, this is a fairly well-known opera aria. Here are two of the duets: La Vie en Rose, and Con Te Partiro (or Por Ti Volare in Spanish, which we did in both languages, I in Italian and Gabriel in Spanish). Apparently the two other ones we did aren't good quality enough to stream. But this will give you an idea for now :o)
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May 20
I hadn't put any of those Blog things I'm addicted to on my site lately, so I added a couple of them just for the sake of posterity. I was about to begin my sentence by saying, "Lately, I have been thinking about something..." but the truth is that I've been thinking about a lot of things, as is almost always the case with me. Sometimes, I wish my brain would sleep.
During my Internet drought at home, I had been thinking about the state of multiculturalism in our country. I have been helping this person I know with her PhD dissertation, and she is in the same department I did my master's in, so we are always on about multiculturalism issues of some sort. We had a discussion about this Multiculturalism Act that was passed in 1988 in Canada (I actually thought it was passed earlier in 1972 or so, but apparently this was just a policy at the time). In any case, I started thinking back to that time; I would have turned 11 that year, and I remembered that was about the same time we got these buttons at school with cartoon drawings of people on them and a slogan saying: "We are all different!" I guess it was to commemorate the passing of that Act. The concept fascinates me, though, because, while I understand the idea that we are to accept (or in the terms of the Act, Respect, Tolerate, and Understand) our differences, this notion has always seemed to focus on what segregates us rather than what unites us. We can be united in the idea that we all have differences, but then we get into these nasty controversies of minority rights, which have no end. And our differences, I believe, are one of the factors that prevent Canada from having a defined national identity. Of course, without this topic of discussion, we might have nothing philosophical to talk about outside of hockey and beer, so perhaps it's all for the best! But seriously, as I concluded in my own thesis, the hegemonic powers would have use stay divided this way to continue the competition for resources and various kinds of capital in order to keep the status quo. I realise this sounds pessimistic, but until I run for Prime Minister and find out it ain't so, that's how I see it.
There has also been a lot of excitement in my life this past week. Excitement makes it sound like a good thing, but what I mean by that is that the week was eventful and full of surprises. Some of that, I can't share with you because it has to do with one of the kids I work with, and with confidentiality, a blog certainly isn't the place for that info. No, the other major news of the week was finding out that the landlady met with an emergency situation and must move back into her house here in Edmonton by the middle of next month. Kelly can move into the basement suite, where she lived before, but I am out of house and home because I can't afford to live anywhere on my own yet. I turn 30 next month, and my b'day present from life is having to move back in with my mom and her husband. Great. The two good things about it is that I will be able to use the money I used to pay in rent to put toward buying my own place next year, and hopefully also I'll get a chance to spend more time with my mom before she retires out of country next year as well. So a lot of changes.
As a side note, I just watched An Inconvenient Truth tonight for the first time. While the environment is of concern to me, I got the more subtle message in Gore's documentary slamming the Republicans. I mean, it kind of made it turn into a really long TV campaign ad like the Americans always have during election season. The subtle message was, " Don't vote for the Republicans next election, vote Democrat." He shows part of the election results when Florida's voting count went wrong and makes it seem like he would have changed the whole environment around had he been elected and boo hoo that George Bush has ruined the world. Well, I think Gore's more significant contribution would have been not going to war. I'm sure he would have ratified Kyoto as well, which would have been great, but I was a little disappointed with a political slant I just wasn't expecting. You know that these kinds of videos are going to have their socially conscious political message, but not a direct blaming the Republicans for all our problems kind of message. I do wonder, too, how much he could have done in office. I saw Bill Clinton being interviewed on the Daily Show, and Jon Stewart asked Clinton if he could have done as much for the country as he's doing now that he isn't president anymore, and Clinton thought he couldn't. He said there are so many other factors to consider when you're running the whole country, so sometimes you can't do what you want to do, no matter how much you want it. I don't really know what my thoughts are on that yet, but it's just food for thought, anyways.
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Sunday, January 6, 2013

April 2007 posts

May 10
I've been gone for quite a while it seems. I wish it were so. I dream of being in Victoria right now, but it's much too expensive to fly there at the moment. But to explain my absence, I've just not been connected to the Internet. In the process of getting the name on our phone line switched from the landlady's to my roommate's, the Internet service cut out and was not fixed for a while. Though my roommate specifically asked them if this switch would affect our Internet service at all, and Telus stated that it would not, we were without Internet for 8 days--7.5 perhaps, to be exact. What gets me is that we were given so much false information. The first time, they said there would be no disruption of service, then after the connection died, I called, only to have them tell me it would take a day or two to reconnect and that we would have Internet by the next day, and this was also false, as we learned two days after my phone call when we still didn't have any Internet. So we called again that day to have them tell us we wouldn't have any Internet for another 2 days, and 3 days later, we still didn't have anything. So after calling once again to find out what was going on, I learned that it had to do now with our modem and some degenerated wires in the box down the street, so they had to send out a technician, who couldn't come until 2 days after that last phone call. And I couldn't even rant about my frustration on my blog here because I didn't have any Internet connection!!!
Anyways, I'm glad to be finally re-connected, although I acknowledge that my dependence on and love for the Internet is probably not healthy. Still, this connection gives me the option to work from home when I like as well, so it's not just all for play!
Outside of that, I've been keeping busy anyways. I worked about a 10-hour day today between two jobs as I finally started at the hospital for an evening shift and had to be at school early in the morning for an 8:15 meeting. Normally I begin at 10. I was lucky to get to go home early today from the school, though, because the kid I normally work with at the school wasn't able to make it in, so I got about an hour off. That made it nice because it meant less rushing between jobs.
I'm also disturbed by the news about another Canadian that was severely injured in Mexico. I don't know why we are all of a sudden hearing about this more than we used to. I don't know if it's just that we're now hearing about it more or that it's actually happening more than it used to. It injures my heart in a way, because I consider Mexico my other home, and it saddens me that a country and people I love are doing this to my own countrymen. I don't want Canadians to feel afraid to go to this wonderful country, but a few incidents like this could ruin it for a lot of people.
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April 30
But not for the reasons I would have imagined, like doing another master's or PhD. I am going back to grade 7 and 8. With my job at the jr high, the one kid I was supposed to help is not returning to the school after all, so I now have a guaranteed 1.5 hours free before my other kid shows up. So they've decided that rather than having me hang out in the behaviour class where the teacher (or teacher's aide) to student ratio is anywhere from 3:4 to 3:1, I should help some kids in regular classes that are having some struggles. Like, there are ESL students and what not. So, I kind of get to go back to school, which is pretty interesting, because I basically get paid to go back to school. You'd think I'd find it useless or repetitive, but let's face it, how many of us remember what we learned in grade 7? The more significant point is that I get to take a class I never had the chance to take in jr high, which is foods. So I'm learning how to cook stuff and getting good ideas for easy recipes, which is really fun. I'm also in Language Arts, Social Studies, Science, and Math--mostly math. I thought this would be horrible, and I must admit that I'm still a little afraid of it because it was always my worst subject. So I'm wondering, how will I help anyone? But the math teacher in whose class I spend the most time is an AWESOME math teacher. I wish I would have had him for math when I was in school. He makes it fun and repeats concepts enough so that you might remember them. I'm excited about that because I feel like I might actually learn math all over again and even understand it this time.
Yes, I am a geek, as you may be wondering just about now. I do love to learn. And yes, I can see your eyes rolling, so don't try to hide it. Moreover, I often felt that my inability in the maths closed off options to me in life, such as studying astronomy or being a better statistician, which would help me in research and/or psychology. In any case, I love having options, so when some are closed off to me, it's kind of upsetting for me.
Anyways, these April and May showers are simply lovely. As much as I love the sun and miss it when it's gone, these rains have been perfect for my mood, and coupled with a warm cup of tea and Ella Fitzgerald playing, there is little better in the world that can suit the melancholia in my soul.
April 23
I remember my friend Angela had a funny entry her blog about a souped up mini van she saw, to which she remarked: what's the point? I whole-heartedly agree, and then I saw a mini-van that almost compared to what she described the other day. I can't really say it was souped up, but it was this Toyota mini van with the wheel on the right side--like they would have in England, for example. Now my point in this case: why is a Toyota mini van like that worth importing?
In the meantime, I must make and addition to this entry, and that is to tell you about this hilarious music--and I use the term loosely--that my friend in Hong Kong told me about. Apparently there's this woman, named Wing, that tried to turn Western pop and rock music into Chinese opera. You can take a listen to it if you click on the link. My roommate and I were incredulous, and it gives you a good laugh. I don't intend to insult any Chinese person or Chinese culture in general, so please don't mistake my intention of putting this here! I can list several Westerners that are worse!
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April 16
You know, sometimes the English language really boggles my mind! I was playing my Boggle game today, which I got from a cereal box, and I sometimes get annoyed with the words they have in their list that I've never heard of and that don't appear to be words in the English language. However, what amuses me is the number of words in the English lexicon that we simply do not know because we don't use them anymore, and then when other countries try to translate some of their words into English, they use these archaic or uncommon terms, and they come out sounding funny.
One of the first of these types of words I learned was the word "bumf." I first saw this word in a photo my cousin sent from China. The photo was of a sign in a bathroom telling users to please place their bumf in the waste basket, or some such thing. I thought this was a made-up word until I decided to check out the Oxford Dictionary, just on the off chance it was there. Sure enough, there it was! Oxford defines it as a noun meaning useless or tedious information or also toilet paper. It originates as an abbreviated form of the word bum-fodder, which meant roughly the same thing. Well, who ever uses this word! But the funny thing is that I actually heard someone I know use it the other day!! I commented to her that I thought it was strange for me to hear that word being used, and then she felt self-conscious about it because it's fairly normal to use it in England, where she had been living for the past several years, and she told me she was going to try not to use it here. Well, that was just interesting!
In my Boggle list of words, specifically, there was a word "titbit." I first posted this word in a photo from Malaysia last year, and I thought this was a hilarious typo. I was wrong again! Turns out this is the British form of the North American word "tidbit," so that was lesson number two. I don't know, maybe I just know too many people with dirty minds, but somehow I think titbit would catch on in the wrong context here in this part of the world.
April 14
I finally got around to hooking up my camera again today now that I have re-installed its corresponding software so I would edit those bird photos for those of you left still reading my blog--it's a dwindling audience. It's hardly surprising because I haven't really led a very adventurous life lately, although I always seem to end up in some situation or another no matter how small or large. Anyways, I'm happy to be able to bring these photos to you because they are cool. This bird was pretty nifty. So check out my second last album there of random photos, and you should see them there.
In terms of my little adventures, one of them, I'll say, is one of those things that makes you roll your eyes and ask yourself why you never learn. I was on my way to my dad's house for supper the other day and had to pick up some sparkling water from somewhere and a few things from Dollarama. I was thinking I would do it at Towne Centre since there is Dollarama and a Safeway, but then as I was on the freeway, I was nearing Southgate when I remembered that they now have a Dollarama, so I thought it would be less out of the way to stop there rather than Towne Centre. So I pulled in. At first, I didn't know where the store was because I had never seen it before there, although I remembered the mall signs announcing its grande opening. The smart thing to do would be to just check the store directory, so I looked at it upon entering the mall. But it took me like 5 minutes just to locate it on the map because I didn't know what kind of a store it would be classified as, department store, speciality story, or whatever. Turns out it's a specialty store, in case you ever need to know this. So I headed for it and got sidetracked by Reitmans for about 5 minutes--I promise, no longer than 5 minutes! I headed downstairs to the store only to see that about half its stock was gone. The shelves were really bare,and I was only able to find about half of what I was looking for. Well, it wasn't the end of the world, but I had been hoping to get it all for a project I was doing at work the next day. Then I went to find sparkling water. I thought I would just get a small bottle at Rexall Drugs since it was on the way out to my car rather than buy it at Safeway, which was very out of the way. When I got to Rexall, they had nothing, so I had to go back to Safeway to get it, but that meant going back to the directory to find it because I couldn't remember how to get there! Well, let's just say that instead of it taking about 20 minutes, which it would have at Towne Centre, it took me an hour in Southgate. Note to self: when you haven't got time, don't waste it in places you aren't familiar with!
As for the older people I mentioned in my title, I'm referring to people in seniors' homes. I sang for about 45 minutes at a seniors' home yesterday afternoon, and it was so good. The lady phoned me today to thank me again, and she said some of the people were still talking about it today. What's remarkable about it, though, is that she said most of them never remember because they have Alzheimer's or various degrees of dementia, so the fact that they remembered me she thought was significant. Wow. That just makes me feel really good. This was the third time I've performed for seniors in a home. The first time was dancing Flamenco with my old troupe, and the second was with some friends singing mostly Latin American and Spanish folk songs. This time I was solo. I just love it because the people enjoy it so much. There was this one lady there who was just clapping and smiling the whole time--and my songs were all slow-ish ballads, not ones you can clap to--but she did, and you could tell she was just in her glory. The only thing I didn't know was why she burst into tears in the very last song. My dad had come just to watch, and he thinks that she probably just had memories come back to her. That's what I thought of when I chose my songs, like what could I do that would bring back good memories for them. Who knows what lost loves, first kisses or first dances, music that was popular when their kids were born, and all that kind of stuff was going through their minds? To give them some happiness, joy, and pleasure in a place, which is for many a dumping ground, well, let's just say it brings tears to my eyes to think of it.
There was another lady there that was a nun, and she had lived in a convent most of her life. She just loves music and told me she enjoyed every one of my songs. It was nifty.
Folks, if you're thinking of putting your own folks in a home, please don't forget about them. Visit them, and visit them often. I leave you with a joke that one of the old timers told me yesterday:
Did you hear about the minister? Well, their church needed a new furnace, so he asked everyone for a special donation that day to cover the cost of the new furnace. When he went through the basket, he saw a $1000 bill in it, and he held it up, asking who had been so generous. A little old lady put up her hand, so the minister thanked her profusely for her generosity, and he said, since you've donated so much, I'd like to let you pick 3 of the hymns today. So the lady stood up, stretched her finger out, and started pointing: "I'd like him, and him, and him!"
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April 07
Kelly and I had Saturday night fever the other night when we decided to watch this John Travolta flick--just for kicks, I might add, not because we actually thought it would be a good movie. It lived up to our expectation that it would be really cheesy. The disco was great,and the acting was terrible. But the unexpected part was the storyline. I thought it was going to be solely about dancing, but they had a number of other stories going on, most of which they left unfinished unfortuantely. It was more raunchy than we expected as well. So, I can come away saying it wasn't a great movie but good for music and dance--kind of like a lot of other dance movies out there. I would still recommend anyone seeing it just because it's a classic, I think, and it's darn funny.
This Saturday, I'm just enjoying a night with the house to myself. Not doing a whole lot but will have to get some work done during the rest of this weekend.
As I'm writing this, I'm chatting with one of my former students from Mexico, and he has just informed me that he is going to put a concert we did together on You Tube, so as soon as I know the link, I will post it on my blog so you all can see it. I had a great DVD of it, but it got misplaced before almost anyone at home got to see it, so I'm happy that I'll finally be able to share it with you.
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